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Relationships Are So Underrated

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  ©Roberta Murray So I had to make this blog and write down or vent it out, so whoever reads it(rarely someone reads these but still, just in case). And don’t take this lightly. I mean, if a guy like me, who's the most introverted, who lives in his own world, is talking about relationships, then you must pay attention. Not gonna blabber useless stuff in this post and it’s gonna be short. I am what a definition of introvert defines. Always had a few people in my life since the start and those few were also because of course.. family and close friends. I always preferred being alone in solitude even before I knew what these things are. Being in solitude isn’t an issue. It’s really good if you genuinely want to know yourself, wondering about everything there is. Now I don’t mind traveling alone, eating alone, doing things alone. But that day, it suddenly struck me out of nowhere.... is it that I love being alone or is it that I know, deep in my mind, that I haven’t ever done my duties...

The You That Only You Know

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     It's so hard to pick the perfect opening line for a blog, you know? There are so many ideas running through your head, but you just can't choose one. So, I decided to start with this line instead—made things easier for me to at least get going XD. But yeah, I mean, I can bet there’s been a moment in your life when you wished they truly knew you—the real you, not just the version they’ve seen. You’re not alone in this, trust me, we’ve all had that thought at some point. So, let me explain it to you in a "graphical" way, with my pictures added in for no particular reason (Tbh, there were reasons behind it. Like, my glasses pic will show the smart, innocent me, the angry young man pic will capture whatever the heck I was, and the stoic one... well, you'll see) So....... I hope you read the picture above :) But yeah, I hope you got what I’m trying to say...still, let me explain it a bit more. 00-16 (School) :I don’t know if anyone reading this knew me back then (...

From Thoughts to Strength

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  Chapter 1 - Realizing One's True Potential I was once sitting, wondering, why do I look good some days and some days... , not so much? I mean, sure, sometimes it’s as simple as whether I’ve taken a bath or not. But most of the time, I’ve realized it’s actually directly proportional to how much I take care of myself. And no, I’m not talking about basic grooming here—because, let’s be honest, we all do that to some degree (hopefully). But it’s not just about the surface-level stuff. Sometimes, it feels like you just literally glow . So, I started thinking: What’s different on those days when I feel like I’m on top of the world—looking good, feeling good? After some serious self-reflection (and probably too much time spent staring at myself in the mirror), I realized there are two key things that make all the difference. Mental Physical Sounds easy, right? Well, it’s more than just think positive and do some squats, but let’s dive deeper into these two categories. 1. Mental : The m...

My First Blog—Well, Sort Of…

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  So, here we go. My “first” blog. Or maybe not. Let me explain. Here’s the thing...I just wanted to see what my blog would look like once I hit Publish . You know, that moment when you put your thoughts out there and hope someone reads them (or maybe even likes it?). Tbh, I'm just here to see if this whole blogging thing works, or if I'll be talking to myself. Well either way, I’m good :) But let’s rewind a bit. This isn’t my first time trying to blog. Back in 2015, I was one of those people who thought they had all these genius life hacks to share. So, I made a blog called “Hacks Everyday” (yeah, real original, right?). If you're curious, you can check it out here . Spoiler alert: it didn’t exactly go viral. Who could’ve guessed? So, while this is technically blog #2, it feels like a fresh start. I’ve got so many opinions, random thoughts/things, and awkward stories to share that I couldn’t keep them to myself any longer. I mean, why not share it with the world? (Or at ...